Is She The One For You?
Is your latest conquest Miss Right or Miss Wrong? It may have taken three dates and a cab fare to get there, but before making yourself at home, have a good look around her place. A simple scan now could save you considerable pain – financially and emotionally – later. Use the ‘cold reading’ techniques of Sherlock Holmes to identify what you’re dealing with. At the very least, you can spot your best escape route.
Happy Reflections
Don’t just check your hair in it – the location of her mirrors will reflect her personality, says psychologist Ingrid Collins from Soul-therapy.co.uk. “If they are positioned to reflect a clear, attractive space, they’re reflecting her own positive outlook and energy. If they reflect clutter they double that negativity, and suggest someone who wallows in remorse and self doubt.” Deduction: MISS RIGHT
Glass Half Full
Her drained wine glass could lead to to more bottoms-up in the bedroom. A study of 800 women by the University of Florence found that women who drank one or two glasses of red wine per day had more fulfilling sex lives, higher arousal levels and more satisfying orgasms.
Deduction: MISS RIGHT
Lock Away Now
Unless she lives on the set of Shameless she shouldn’t have bolts on any doors other than her bathroom, says former FBI agent Joe Navarro. If she does, she could be an emotional time-bomb. “The presence of locks shows she’s been hurt and displays clear emotional fragility.”
Deduction: MISS WRONG
If Walls Could Talk
A series of bare walls is a sign of someone who has weak links to family and doesn’t nurture bonds or relationships, says non-verbal communication specialist David Givens. “Seeing no framed photographs or artwork in a living room is a warning to leave. Even cavemen daubed paintings on their walls to make them homely.”
Deduction: MISS WRONG
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Words by Andy Jones. Image from Stockexchange
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